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On SSH sessions to headless servers, DBUS_SESSION_BUS_ADDRESS and XDG_RUNTIME_DIR may not be set even when the user's systemd instance is running via linger. This causes 'systemctl --user' to fail with 'Failed to connect to bus: No medium found', breaking gateway restart/start/stop as a service and falling back to foreground mode. Add _ensure_user_systemd_env() that detects the standard D-Bus socket at /run/user/<UID>/bus and sets the env vars before any systemctl --user call. Called from _systemctl_cmd() so all existing call sites benefit automatically with zero changes. Fixes: gateway restart falling back to foreground on headless servers